Saturday, October 24, 2009

Learning my lesson...

To continue musing about my new inspiration, M. Night, it seems a bit absurd to me the fact that I am having to go back and rewatch movies that I have hated in the past. Garden State, The Green Mile, and now Signs. I find it more than interesting that when I first watched them I had the exact same eyes that I do now, I saw the exact same images, heard the exact same sounds, yet, took from them a different vision. In remembering my initial experiences, I noticed that I took one thing from each movie- a specific thing, and used it as my reasoning that the movie sucked. With Garden State, it was the gross sex scene; The Green Mile was completely unrealistic with the bugs flying out of the dude's mouth; and with Signs, I didn't like that they showed the aliens. I thought they should have had more of an invisible mystique. Each of these individual things that I chose to pull from these movies lasted a matter of seconds, compared to the entire movie's length. And, that is what I chose to take from them.

Now, going back and watching each of these movies, I don't take specific scenes or even characters with me. I take lessons. Each of them has a theme interwoven among its words and imagery that is more powerful than any one part of it. It's the whole thing that makes it beautiful and meaningful. No longer will I look at the tiny; I will focus on the big.

I think it is the same thing with people. When you take one tiny thing, maybe something they did or something about their personality or belief system, and make that who they are, you miss the lesson. We are each so much more than any one slice of ourselves. To learn from each other, we have got to see the whole. We all have a lesson to teach. The way we teach it does not matter. The specifics do not matter. It is the lesson that is important. And, we must make a conscious effort to take these lessons from each other.


I spent the afternoon roaming the streets of St. Augustine taking photos of "interesting" people. Here is number one.

3 comments:

soulsurvivor said...

I am quite interesting, aren't I?

dewin said...

You could call it that.

Everyone needs a hobby... said...

Kind of the complete opposite of disliking a movie for the small...I saw Where The Wild Things Are on Tuesday, and I just didn't like it. I loved the cinematography, I loved the music, the acting was great...but I just didn't like it. It left you feeling alone, and cold, and unstable even though it ended with Max back in his mother's arms. I was reading another blog on Thursday and she mentioned how overplayed the divorce theme was, and it wasn't until then that I realized that's what it was.

I have no first hand experience with divorce, I have no idea what it would feel like to have my parents split, but once she mentioned that, I realized that was where the sadness came from. The two main Wild Things clearly having a relationship end, and the way it effected the other Wild Things and Max...and it was sad. And it left me uncomfortable and unhappy...so I didn't like the movie.

I still don't like the movie, but now that I realize why I don't like it, I'm in awe of Spike Jonze's ability to convery that feeling to someone who doesn't even have a context for it. Talk about a strong movie!